Community guidelines

Last updated 1 October 2026

These rules apply to every profile, photo and message. Moderators remove what breaks them, and may suspend or ban the account.

Be yourself

  • Use your own photos, showing your face. No photos of other people, celebrities or children.
  • One account per person. You must be 18 or older.

Be respectful

  • No harassment, threats, hate or pressure. "No" ends the conversation.
  • No nudity or sexual content in photos or profile text.
  • Do not share another person's private information.

No scams or selling

  • Do not ask for money, and do not advertise products, services or other sites in dating profiles or messages.
  • Companion adverts belong in Companions only, and follow the Advertiser rules.

What happens when something is removed

You get a notice in your account saying what was removed. Repeated or serious breaches lead to suspension or a ban.